Around the time of Christ, there was a common prayer in Judaism - ‘Blessed art thou, O God, for not making me a Gentile, woman, or a slave.’ It was backhanded worship that exalted the status of men in the first century. But many today would read this prayer and the above verses similarly. They could be seen as suppressing women and enhancing the power of men. But are they the same?
Ephesians 5:18 starts a section often called the ‘household codes.’ The book's opening chapters rehearsed God’s great gift of salvation, but the later chapters call us to live out the implications of that salvation. After giving us a variety of individual applications, Paul now invades our homes and the relationships they contain.
Wives, submit to your own husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.
- Ephesians 5:22-24 (ESV)